I remember flirting – they did it back when I was in college, I think. It’s like penmanship – I was never any good at it. I was also bad at recognizing the few times it happened to me.
Case in point, I was at a party one time and a girl confided in me that she was having trouble with her boyfriend back home. She said it would be nice if she could find someone to make him jealous and gave me a long and rather odd look. I assumed the look meant she might be gassy or something, so I offered to refill her drink and plodded away.
Upon finding my friend, JC, I told him what had just happened. He gave me an equally odd look and said, “Dude, she wanted to make him jealous with you. Are you stupid?”
I refused to answer his charge, but rushed back to the young lady in question, only to find JC glued to her hip. In fact, he must have told every eligible male in the room because there seemed to be an impenetrable force field of testosterone around her. I have no idea what her intentions were and never saw her again.
Now I’m old and married. I flirt with my wife sometimes. I’m so bad at it that she mostly laughs at me when I do. I am a believer in wearing my wedding ring and I don’t frequent bars – so I don’t see much flirtation anymore. If I was bad at recognizing flirtation back in the day, I’m totally out of practice now.
Which brings me to a recent lunch where a lady half my age at a table nearby seemed to be peeking my way. It got downright embarrassing. I kept my head down – no sense leading her on with my charm and good looks (Ha!). After all, I am not available. I often wonder what a man in his 40’s would even talk about with a girl in her 20’s. Most of the time when a person that young talks to me, I feel like I’m watching Telemundo – I understand every third word and just nod a lot.
I felt the weight of this young lady’s stare all through lunch. My mind was ablaze with ways to tell my wife about it – that was going to be fun. The old man still has it! I couldn’t get in trouble for this. After all, several witnesses could testify that I didn’t initiate or encourage the situation. I was just a pawn in her game of lust.
At some point, she appeared two feet away from me. I had no desire to hurt her feelings. After I spurned her advances, I hoped she wouldn’t be crushed. Now that I saw her up close, she was a very attractive young lady who could easily find love with an available man closer to her age.
“Excuse me,” she said. “I’m sorry I was staring at you.”
“That’s okay,” I answered gently. “People say I look like Opie Taylor, so I get that a lot.”
Her look of confusion betrayed that she had no idea who that was… So young.
“No, that’s not it,” she said. “You just look familiar to me.”
The oldest pick-up line in the book. Here we go.
“I don’t think I know you,” I said.
“Oh, I know that. But you look exactly like my dad if he were bald. Do you mind if we take a selfie so I can send it to him?”
I smiled as best I could as she took the picture with my friends laughing wildly. My boastful story to my wife died with the flash of her phone, as did a piece of my self-esteem. I really gotta stop shaving my head.
Artwork: The Flirtation by Eugen de Blaas
10 thoughts on “The Flirt”
Hahahahahaha thank you for the laugh 😃😃😃
Too funny…too true! (every 3rd word is rather generous 😉 )
I took Spanish for seven years, so as long as they don’t talk too fast on TV.
Oh, you mean with kids…
I learned german watching childrens TV. Yea, those kids nowadays lol! I once “thought” I was hip
i love the ending of this, hilarious. it puts it all back into perspective. as i am now in the dating world, at my age, i look for someone who knows the original monkees and not the reruns on retro tv.
Here we come, walking down the street… Takes on a whole new meaning when you read that Charles Manson auditioned to be a Monkey.
Had to look up Opie as I wasn’t totally sure but I wouldn’t have let her do the selfie. Who knows where your image is now and what the caption is with it! 😉
I was far too shell-shocked to decline. Maybe I’ll be insta-famous or something.
That’s hilarious Mark. What a shot to the ego eh. But I have to confess, I LOVE this: “I am not available”
Integrity is so much more than just a handsome face.
Hope you and your family are doing well.
We are doing well – all except my ego. Thanks Staci!